Dominance is my nature. This is not just a game.
This is an overview of my core kinks, interests and limits; and how I run my sessions and D/s relationships.
My primary interests, in session
Erotically charged mental manipulation
Artful verbal humiliation that starts as tease before you realise you are in a world of sweet degradation
Understanding, pushing yet respecting your limits (this is very important to me)
You doing as I say, jump higher like this, suck harder like this – protocol followed according to my desires
Pushing delicately and not so delicately on all your kink buttons, I will use them to use you
Seeing you erotically overwhelmed and in absolute bliss
Controlling you so tightly to the edge of your orgasm
Dictating if and how you may finally release, release and release…
Using my sub girl on you accordingly
My primary interests, always
Courteous, competent, attentive, efficient service slavery (pre-empting my needs will get you far, could be as simple as making sure I never carry a bag)
My secondary interests, in session
Indulging my sadistic needs up to our safeword. Most of the time I am reading you throughly but sometimes I like that you are just a surface for my cane (I get the urge once every few months but it is strong)
My secondary interests, always
Being spoiled. I adore it when you get to know my preferences and look after them for me. This could be booking hotels and restaurants according to my tastes unprompted. It could also be gifts. I am specific with my gifts, I know what I want and I will tell you. Safe words are allowed. I often consider this play meets adoration and generosity.
My other kink competencies
You name it and I’ve likely been trained in it. I began as a dungeon apprentice and practiced under many Mistresses before establishing myself as a Dominatrix. You could call it a classical training.
Physically I lean towards light to medium level play (up to marks for a week, restriction with some room for movement) but I am competent up until the lower range of hard play
Mentally and emotionally, I am at my best with advanced players; or I will lead beginners into genuine power exchange rapidly
Interests in progress but not a main focus
Off the cards
Sex (my sub girl is available for this)
Intimate worship aside from ass worship (I find the combination of intimacy and degradation of ass worship sublime)
Instructions or scripts, I do not respond well to these. Pose every desire as a request and be ready to leave yourself to my hands.
Permanent branding or modifications, I will not do these myself but love facilitating so
Extensive blood play, nothing against it I only feel my experience is lacking
To start, leading up to our first session
At this point you will be welcomed to share your general interests and experience with me. I may even ask to hear about a short fantasy or two. But my initial focus is understanding what it’s like to toy with who you are. You may think of it as a very titillating first date. Simply turn up and do as I say. I will instigate and appreciate your surrender…
If we meet again
I will be happy to dig deeper and may get you to fill out a thorough kink worksheet which I will incorporate into our interactions.
If I decide we will get along outside session walls
I would like to keep you on hand for errands and out of session activities, e.g. rope bottom in kinbaku workshops, my dinner companion, go fetch me something etc. I may also send you to see my large network of carefully selected Mistresses. They are generally my friends but as I hold myself to a high standard they are also of this standard or greater. I do this to cover areas I do not excel in, for when I am unavailable or simply for my amusement.
A note on limits and boundaries
Hard limits are always respected
In initial sessions we will be testing the waters and so conversations around limits will be brief. However as we progress – both your kink worksheets and our interaction will inform me further. This is very important to me. I practice BDSM with a strong emphasis on ethical exchange that is risk aware, consensual and caring. We will be indulging in activities that society defines as hurtful but in actuality the negotiation inherent to a BDSM exchange makes it one of the most compassionate environments possible.
As a Dominant I am the caretaker of our emotions and consequences. I take this responsibility to heart.