Video Interview: BDSM in Singapore

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I was interviewed by ‘Sex In Our City’ for their impressive project on sex and BDSM in Singapore.The interviews spanned an hour in between sessions and two hours in conversation the following day. They have beautifully condensed it all for ease and accessibility in a three minute video and a few thousand words – but I will always remember their deep effort and intelligent questioning. It brought me such a joy to know that those outside kink in Singapore could approach what we do with such careful curiosity and intelligence.

Please take the time to read through their site. I appear in one section on BDSM, but they also cover different aspects to sex in Singapore such as porn, swinging and sex toy design.

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The beginning of the segment I am in below…


The Growing Pains Of Singapore’s BDSM Scene

Instead of submitting to societal norms, the kink scene here continues to mature — but is still tied down by movie stereotypes.

In her line of work, she listens to no one. Her word is final. If the man at her feet makes a wrong move or says the wrong thing, he might be reprimanded. Or beaten.

When addressing her, he knows to never leave out the honorifics — Mistress Eva* is just that particular. When in her presence, he learns to crawl, not walk. When awaiting instructions, he kneels by her side. Remember, he is here to serve Mistress Eva.

He is a slave. Her slave.

Except he is also a willing and consenting adult who is paying good money to be treated this way.

Mistress Eva will see you now.

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